Wednesday, July 29, 2015

A God of Small Things, Big Things, and Things In Between


A lot of the time when we contemplate having an eternal, infinite God so huge that he created the entire universe and everything it in – from tiny little atoms and their components to everything they make up – we can feel overwhelmed and doubt if that same God has the time, patience, and/or interest to consider us and care about our problems. I mean, why should God care if I pass my Psychology exam if there are so many bigger things to focus on – like ISIS? But when it comes down to it, God is a God of big things, small things, and things in between.

How do I know this? The Bible has lots of references, such as Matthew 6:26-34.

"Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life? And why do you worry about clothes? See how the flowers of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you—you of little faith? So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own."

Matthew 10:29-31 is another verse that shows how God is interested in things both big and small.

Are not two sparrows sold for a penny? Yet not one of them will fall to the ground outside your Father’s care. And even the very hairs of your head are all numbered. So don’t be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows.

These verses illustrate several points, two of which I am going to focus on. The first is that God cares about the birds and the plants. Compared to how many children are going to bed hungry, the many diseases plaguing the world, political turmoil, and countless other things, birds and plants can seem inconsequential to us. Yet, as Matthew 10:29 says, not one sparrow will fall to the ground and escape God’s knowledge. So, though these things seem small and inconsequential to us, they are important to God. The second point is that God cares about us. As Genesis 1:27 tells us, humans are made in the image of God. We matter to him. Although all of his creations are special to him, we are the most special – the most important – to him. And as you can see from the verses above, if he takes care of things that are of less importance, he will take care of us, who are worth so much more. God is a God of both big things and small things.

Aside from the Bible, I like to look at my own experiences for proof that he cares for both big and small things, and even the things in between.

A couple months ago I woke up with a horrible stomach ache. Not to get into TMI territory, but I thought I was going to be sick. Seriously. Instead of getting up and doing something – like going to get a bucket or pills – I sat in bed and prayed to God to take away my pain. I won’t say the pain was gone instantly, but it did begin to fade instantly. A stomach ache doesn’t stand up next to all of the issues going on in the world, but God cared enough about me to take away my pain almost instantly when I asked.

My family got a phone call from one of my mom’s friends late at night a few weeks back. She said that her brother had been in a motorcycle accident and was in ICU. He had internal bleeding and was in an induced coma. He hadn’t been wearing a helmet. The family had been asking for – and receiving – lots of prayers. He should have died. But he didn’t. He is going to recover. God cared enough about this man’s life that he allowed him to survive an accident that should have killed him.

So we can see that God is a God of both small things and big things. But what about the things that fall somewhere in between suffering from a bit of pain and almost dying?

A couple weeks ago I woke up in the middle of the night and was hit with the realization that I’m going back to school and that if I don’t get more scholarships then I don’t have enough money to cover all of the expenses. I knew I had enough money for tuition, but what about books? What about gas? What about food? This is something that I’ve been anxious about for a while, but it just sort of hit me at that point. Was I not supposed to go back to school? Did I make a mistake when I decided to pass up the opportunity to become a grant writer so I could go back to school? Was I not supposed to be a teacher? Had I royally screwed up? I said some prayers and finally managed to fall back to sleep. I was too lazy to turn my alarm clock off when it came on, so I just laid in bed for a few minutes and listened to the radio. After a while a commercial came on that was basically encouraging people to become teachers. “That’s uncanny,” I thought. Later on that day I got onto my school account and saw that I had been awarded another scholarship.

God cared enough to take away my stomach ache, to save a man's life, and to encourage me and help me out financially when it comes to school. If you ask me, that's awesome.

The next time you feel weird asking God for something or you start doubting if he really cares for you, try remembering the things that he has done for you so far in your life. Look at the Bible. Reflect on the times someone you know told you about answered prayers. God cares. He cares about the big things, the small things, and even the things in between.

Cheers!

Molly

Sunday, July 26, 2015

Bloggers Co-Op Sharing is Caring Weekly LinkUp 7/26 #SharingIsCaringLinkUp

 
 

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Tuesday, July 21, 2015

Soft and Chewy Chocolate Chip Cookies


Chocolate chip cookies: the go-to favorite cookie for a lot of people. Personally, oatmeal raisin is my favorite (yes, I know I’m weird; I take after my grandma!) but I still like a good chocolate chip cookie. Preferably, ooey-gooey chocolate chip cookies that have been a bit under-baked. What about you guys? What are your favorite kinds of cookies, and do you prefer them soft or a bit crunchy?


There are so many chocolate chip cookie recipes out there; probably each person (well, each baking person) has their own recipe. I like my grandma’s recipe, my cousin’s recipe, and even the kind I get in a box at Walmart, but the recipe below is probably my favorite. It uses two kinds of sugar, a cup of butter, and a whole bag of chocolate chips. What’s not to love?

Like I said, I believe every person has their own chocolate chip recipe, but if you’re looking for a new one - or one in general if you’re just getting into baking – I highly recommend this one!


Preheat the oven to 300 degrees.

First, mix 2 ½ cups of all-purpose flour, ½ tsp baking soda, and ¼ tsp of salt in a bowl. Set aside.

In a separate bowl, cream together 1 cup of brown sugar, ½ cup white sugar, and 1 cup (2 sticks) of butter with a hand mixer (or, if you’re lucky, a stand mixer). When the butter and sugar are creamed, add 2 eggs and 2 tsps of vanilla and mix.

Add the dry ingredients to the wet ingredients and beat with the mixer, then add one package (2 cups) of semi-sweet chocolate chips and stir until mixed.


Make dough balls (about the size of a ping-pong ball) and place them on a baking sheet with about 1 ½ inches between them. Bake for about 15 minutes, until the edges are golden brown and the middles are still gooey. Let the cookies set on the tray for about five minutes, then move them to a cooling rack.


Serve warm with a nice big glass of milk and enjoy! Store the remaining cookies in an airtight container with a piece of bread to keep them from getting hard.


This recipe makes about 3 dozen cookies.

Soft and Chewy Chocolate Chip Cookies


Ingredients


2 ½ cups all-purpose flour
½ tsp baking soda
¼ tsp salt
1 cup brown sugar
½ cup white sugar
1 cup (2 sticks) cold butter, cut into chunks
2 eggs
2 tsps vanilla
1 package (16 oz) semi-sweet chocolate chips

Directions


Preheat the oven to 300 degrees.

Mix 2 ½ cups of all-purpose flour, ½ tsp baking soda, and ¼ tsp of salt in a bowl. Set aside. In a separate bowl, cream together 1 cup of brown sugar, ½ cup white sugar, and 1 cup (2 sticks) of butter with a hand mixer (or, if you’re lucky, a stand mixer). When the butter and sugar are creamed, add 2 eggs and 2 tsps of vanilla and mix. Add the dry ingredients to the wet ingredients and beat with the mixer, then add one package (2 cups) of semi-sweet chocolate chips and stir until mixed.

Make dough balls (about the size of a ping-pong ball) and place them on a baking sheet with about 1 to 1 ½ inches between them. Bake for about 15 minutes, until the edges are golden brown and the middles are still gooey. Let the cookies set on the tray for about five minutes, then move them to a cooling rack.

Serve warm with a nice big glass of milk and enjoy! Store the remaining cookies in an airtight container with a piece of bread to keep from getting hard.

Don’t forget to tell me your favorite kind of cookies and if you like them soft or crunchy in the comments! I’d love to know!

Molly

Monday, July 13, 2015

Saint Anything by Sarah Dessen Book Review


I am a huge fan of fantasy and sci-fi books. I mean, I read to escape my life, so why not go somewhere completely out-there? The idea of reading “YA contemporary fiction” didn’t used to appeal to me. I remember going to this secondhand bookshop when I was about 16 and asking the shop lady if she had any young adult books. “We have some Sarah Dessen books. Those are pretty popular with the young crowd,” she said, then proceeded to show me a stack of contemporary fiction novels. *sigh*

Honestly, one of the reasons why I was hesitant to read YA contemporary fiction was because I had this idea that they were filled with and fueled by sex, drugs, alcohol, parties. After all, that’s what’s popular.

It wasn’t until a few years later that I read one of Dessen’s books. My mom had picked up a few of her books at the Goodwill so I had them on my shelves, but I didn’t read any until I joined a book club during my senior year of high school. The first book we read for the book club was Along for the Ride by Sarah Dessen, which was one that I owned. It didn’t sound too horrible, so I decided to give it a go.


I loved it.

Dessen gets the struggle of being a teenager; the struggle of being old enough, but not old enough (you know, when you’re a “big girl/boy” who’s expected to be responsible but no one really takes you seriously?). Don’t get me wrong, there are elements of “popular” themes (ie alcohol, parties, etc.) in her books, but they aren’t a main focus. The characters might drink, but they aren’t the obnoxious “Hey, let’s go out and get smashed!” kind of characters. The characters are human beings, with flaws and strengths and actual personalities. They are people.

I found Dessen’s latest novel, Saint Anything, during a trip to Target. It sounded interesting, but I needed to save my money for a new summer wardrobe (apparently my 20-year-old self does not share the same style as my 16-year-old self), and I am always hesitant to buy books that I haven’t read yet. So, even though it was 20% of the cover price and it was a signed copy, I put the book down and requested it from the library. 

I finished it about a week after checking it out, and went back to Target to claim that signed copy as mine (deciding that thrift shopping for new clothes was good enough for me).


Sydney has always lived in the shadow of her older brother, Peyton – a situation that becomes even worse when Peyton hits a kid when drunk driving, sentencing the kid to a life of lower body paralysis. Rather than dealing with the stares, whispers, and opinions of her classmates, Sydney decides to transfer to a new school, leaving all associations with Peyton behind her – or so she hopes (and her mother hopes not). A new school brings a new scene – including a new after school scene. Soon, Sydney finds herself drawn out of her Peyton-centered family and into the Chatham family, where she finally feels like she belongs, even if they are just barely more put together than her own family, with Layla’s knack for dating losers, Rosie’s history with drugs, and Mrs. Chatham’s failing health. And then there’s Mac, who Sydney might be falling for, despite Layla’s “no dating the best friend’s brother!” rule. As the front flap says: Saint Anything is Sarah Dessen’s deepest and most psychologically probing novel yet, telling an engrossing story of a girl discovering friendship, love, and herself.

My description barely does it justice, and the front flap barely does it justice. The plot is good, yes, but it’s the entire theme of the book that pulls it together; it’s the characters themselves, and their struggles and battles and victories and losses and journeys. 

It’s not just a book about a girl with a brother who has screwed up big time – it’s a book about a girl who feels invisible in her brother’s shadow because everything he does, whether good or bad, is more important than anything that she does. It’s not just a book about a girl finding a cute guy to crush on, fantasize about, and then, finally, go out with – it’s a book about a girl who finds a guy who accepts her and her baggage, and shows her his own baggage, hoping that she’ll accept him, too. It’s not just a book about finding friendship and a “niche” – it’s a book about finding a family that accepts you, flaws and all. As New York Times bestselling novelist Jodi Picoult says, Saint Anything is a poignant and honest story.

Saint Anything resonated with me even though my brother never made a mistake so huge that it landed him in prison, and I believe that it will resonate with many others, too. After all, who hasn’t suffered at the expense of someone else’s poor choices (no matter how big or small)? And who doesn’t want to find that niche – that family – where they and their baggage are welcomed with open arms? I highly recommend this book, especially to teenagers/young adults, and adults who remember what it’s like being a teenager.

Happy reading!

Molly

Confession: I didn't originally like the title or the cover art. Then I read the book and I think both are brilliant. Sarah Dessen's books always have a way of surprising me!

Sunday, July 12, 2015

Derma e Purifying Products Giveaway (Open to US only, 18+; ends 8/2/15)


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My skin gets super oily, but it's also sensitive so I need to be careful about the products I use. Derma e is doctor-developed and all natural, so I have a feeling their products would be my face's new best friend. Kelly over at Kelly's Thoughts on Things had the chance to review derma e purifying products (worth $125!) and now she's hosting a giveaway for these products. Enter to win below!

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One (1) winner will win Derma e Purifying Products. This Giveaway is open to US residents only, ages 18 and older. The Giveaway will run from July 11, 2015 until 11:59pm EST on August 2, 2015. One entry per household.

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